This is a piece of my diary that I found a while ago. I wrote this in 2014 during my travel in South America.
I didn't really think of writing anymore, but this is a small story that I really want to share.
La Paz, Bolivia 2014
Sometimes nature really tries us.
For a month we’ve had some really strong rains and storms in Bolivia. Towns in the jungle have suffered and been destroyed, but yesterday, it happened in La Paz. The rain was so strong that it wasn’t raining water drops anymore, it rained hailstones. It rained so hard that an outdoor roof in one university broke and fell down, on top of a young boy and he died.
Unfortunately, this boy happened to be one of my friend’s friend. He asked me to go with him to the funeral. They had been friends since the first grade, 14 years of friendship. I can not even imagine how it feels to loose one of your closest friends, with whom you have shared so many years. Of course I would go to be there for him.
The funeral was very sad but still beautiful, and for me it was interesting because I hadn’t been to a Bolivian funeral before.
I was surprised how many people attended. He was really loved, I imagine. I was told this boy was one of the happiest persons of the friend group. Also I think it touched people because of the tragical way he passed away.
The funeral started in the church were the priest prayed with the people and they threw flowers on top of the coffin. From there, the coffin was moved to it’s grave. Once there, they played some really sad but still beautiful songs accompanied by a guitar, some prayers and the goodbyes of the family and closest friends. I couldn’t help my tears falling, even though I didn’t know this boy. Then the rest of the sorrowers could leave their flowers and goodbyes.
After everyone had gone, my friend's little group gathered around the grave and had their little own memorial. They had a quiet moment for him and then started each on their turn give a little speech for him, remembering his good qualities or moments they’d spend together. All though it wasn’t a pleasant moment, it was beautiful to see how much these guys cared about their friend and how so many years spending together really makes you know a person.
Life is not always fair. Nature is unpredictable, sometimes it tries us more than we could take. I didn’t know this boy, but I felt sorry and sad of course because he was close to my friend but also because he had my age, he was just a kid, 20 years old with a whole life ahead. What did he do or his family to deserve this? Nothing. That’s the world we live in. Nothing is sure, we never know what will happen tomorrow or the day after. That’s why we have to enjoy every moment, day, hour and second we get. Remember to tell to the people around us that we love them, forgive those we haven’t forgiven yet, do things we’ve always wanted to do, cherish every moment of life and make it rememberable — for the people who didn’t get the chance for it.
Rest in peace Juan Pablo.
















